About Me

My name is Pam and I'm a continuous work in progress. I have finally reached the point in my 51 years of life where I am comfortable in my own skin.   I can honestly say that I have seen the good, bad, and the ugly.   

In a nutshell, I am a Indianapolis native, born to parents that were married 47 years, and I have three brothers and three sisters.   

My life has included many phases including leaving the nest at 16, becoming a mother, for the first time at 20, and for the second time at 25. I was a single mom of two girls, as both their fathers were incarcerated.   

My girls, and my two grand-children are my world and my daily determination. Without them I would not have survived the many surgeries by the age of 48. For example, high blood pressure diagnosis at the age of 25, my battle with weight gain, even after undergoing the gastric bypass surgery, abuse, heartbreak,  abandonment by men who view single mothers as doormats, homelessness, an estranged relationship with my mother and daughter, my father's passing, and untimely and unexpected death of my best friend, my brother, Steven.   

While I have had many phases in my life, you can see in my picture that I still smile.   Do I get weary?  Of course, I'm still human.   However, I am extremely grateful for the high and low phases of my life as I have learned that GOD gave me this story to share with you to let you know that this too shall pass.  

You see, I have gone through so many things that I couldn't even begin to list them all in this small box.  However, the current chapter in my life is where I share how the story can end.  I have learned that the only way to get your desired ending is to embrace the process.  

There are so many women that are hurting and have no one to talk to because they feel ashamed, fear of being judged, or simply do not trust others. I strive to be that non-judgmental ear for you and let you know that what you are going through is only a phase.